…followed very quickly by another panic! I’m starting to see a cycle to my panics now, they’re usually at the beginning of a school term, when ‘HE is bad’ hits the news or TV, or if an LA visit is due. Of course this current panic is fuelled by a triple-whammy; it’s back to school week, Lord Soley has made yet another ignorant blog post linking HE with Khyra Ishaq (read it here, the comments are great!), and a TV drama programme featuring HE kids in a typically negative light has aired. So I’ve been feeling quite battered, bruised and worried about it all.
I feel under extreme pressure (not sure where it’s coming from, probably myself) to ensure Charlotte gets very good exam results next year, that Kianna makes significant progress, that Matthew turns into some sort of whizz-kid, to prove that I’m not ruining them, that I’ve done the right thing, that I am capable.
I’ve got a timetable sorted out (though I have learned from my mistakes, there’s lots of flexibility built in this time!). I’m going to manage Matthew’s short attention span by doing the work he hates in very short ‘micro-lessons’ This means 1 minute of handwriting practise (letter formation), 1 minute of him reading out loud to me and 1 minute of grammar. I truly think this will be far more effective than trying to make him sit and write/read/recite and ending up in tears (that would be both of us!!). Then we will move on to Maths for about 15 – 20 minutes and finally one from science (which he loves), History (which he hates, but I have an idea of exploring history through a Dr Who role play, getting him to play the Dr, and re-creating historical events and imagining what might have happened if the Dr changed something. Do you think that will engage him? He’s Dr Who mad!) or a project (which at the moment is a Dr Who based animation). He’s recently discovered Google Maps, and he has Mathletics and Education City and can play freely on them after lunch when it’s his turn on the pc. It’s a bit of structure, but still leaving plenty of scope to choose his own topics, and time for him to pursue his own interests too. He’s just turned 7. Is it enough?
Kianna and Charlie are easier, they are gearing up for exams, they just need telling to ‘do maths’, ‘do this’, ‘do that’ and they tend to get on with it. I’m still trying to build up Kianna’s confidence, she’s convinced she’s stupid, which she isn’t, but she lives in Charlie’s shadow, who has always been praised for her cleverness. It’s quite tough balancing it out. I think Kianna was boosted by Jess’s exam results and our reaction to them, she knows that we don’t care about A*s, we care about effort.
Frankie knows most of her letters by sight now, so it won’t belong now before I start teaching her to read in a more formal fashion. I’m also going to introduce some maths, probably Singapore Pre-K stuff. This won’t be till Matthew is in an established routine though. Frankie isn’t 4 till December, so plenty of time yet
So, onwards and upwards! Well at least till my next panic, due sometime in January 2011…